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About Looking For Love SiteHello and welcome to my website LookForLoveSite.com.

My name is Vikki Taylor, I am 32 years old, and I have had my struggles finding the right man. I have had many relationships with men and all have failed except for the one I am in right now. In fact, I have enjoyed this relationship for well over a year and am engaged to be married. Wow! I still can’t believe it.

I never thought it would happen to me but it did. You see, I dated men, and I might add, many men with the initial intent of developing a long term relationship but it just never happened.

Some lasted 1 month, others 2-3 months, and unfortunately, many lasted only one night. I believed the old adage that “Men give love to get sex, and women must provide sex to get love”.

I finally reached a point where I had sworn of men entirely. I resigned myself to what I thought was a fact, and later found out that it was not, that I was meant to be single – yes destined to be single for the rest of my life. I had friends who were happily married, and some even had children.

I had nothing in common with them. I would go out with them, always felt like a third wheel, and could not even participate in a conversion because I had nothing to add. Often, they would invite a single guy along with the hopes that he and I would somehow connect, but that kind of contrived blind dating never worked. I never had any desire to pursue anything with them other than superficial conversation.

Quite frankly, I felt like a loser. But deep down I knew I wasn’t. I was a good person with a lot to offer a relationship. Frothy emotional appeals like “Don’t worry, the right guy will come along some day”, or “You are attractive, have a great personality, and fun to be with”, and even last ditch efforts like “It’s their loss not yours”, just made me feel worse. They had great intentions and their hearts were in the right place, but it just was not working!

I then hit an all time low. All of my self confidence was gone, I had no self esteem, and the self image of myself was awful. I had actually taken a personal vow of celibacy and decided not to date men anymore. Sex was important to me but the type of sex I was having had no intimacy and could by no means be called making love. If my intent was simply to have the “Big O”, I could do that myself and do it a lot better that the men I had been sleeping with.

That was not what I wanted – I wanted to be in a loving, caring, long term relationship with a man. After spending may lonely Friday and Saturday nights, and attending social events as a single women, a revelation came over me, I suddenly became aware that that if kept doing what I was doing, I would keep getting more of what I always got.

I then made a decision to learn more about myself, and more importantly, more about the way men think about women, love, relationships, and what men really want. I undertook a study by scouring the internet and doing my own study and research for many months. What I found was quite astonishing. Men want the same thing as women – they want to be loved, and have the same desire to find a woman to spend the rest of their lives with. Men just have a different way of getting there, and a different way of expressing the way they feel.

I took what I learned, and began using it. Shortly thereafter, I found the love of my life – something which I thought would never happen. I now feel an obligation to other women who are stuck in a a poor relationship, or are still desperately looking for the right man, to share my experience, strength, and hope. I don’t want anyone to have to go through what I did.

As a result, I have developed this website which will have useful and informative information on everything from relationship advice and dating advice, to finding the right boyfriend. In addition, I will include relationship product reviews which I personally found extremely helpful.

I wish you all the best, and hope you can find the same true love as I did.

 

Vikki Taylor

 

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